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i am like extremely furious right now. the boyfriend's done it again.

despite us being together for the past 5 years, the boyfriend has got BAD habits he needs to rid himself off if he wants this relationship to blossom because i do not think i want to live with a man boy who says things, and never gets it done.

example one:

savings.

when we were in poly 5 years back, we were but poor humble students who didn't have very much pocket money to spend on anything expensive. the boyfriend said that when he goes into army and becomes a soldier who would then have a fixed monthly allowance, he would start saving up for rainy days, and for whatever catastrophe that will come along the way.

that never happened.

example two:

still on savings.

so when the boyfriend got into army, he still could not make good the words he said in poly days due to excessive spending on branded clothes and stuff.

the words he said never came true.

example three:

crystal studs.

the boyfriend said he'd do a nice design for me. from february of this year right up to now, i still have the studs at home.

the designs never came.

when we say something, it is binding on us. you learn law, you know how words can make or break a deal. God also said so in the Bible. you do not have to literally say the words "i promise" or "i guarantee" etc.

and when i confronted the boyfriend today, he had the audacity to deny it and push the blame right back to me saying i did not like and/or approve any of the designs he offered.

bullshit.

this whole design thing is not about whether i liked it or not, but when YOU were ever gonna get down to doing it. he dared to even mutter under his breath and said "i thought you forgot about it".

you say something, you jolly well follow through. dun do things half-f**k, i don't like it.

be a man of your word please.