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Thursday, September 29, 2005

| Hungry *pouts |

am munching on sotong balls as i'm typing this. i'm SO hungry!!! my boy booked out just now, and i'm waiting for him to finish bathing before we cycle down to fisherman's village for dinner and for the sunset. oh how i miss the nature!

this job is good, it still ends @ 5.30pm. muahahahahaha!

Tuesday, September 27, 2005

| oh how i miss blogging...|

my head is spinning as i'm penning this entry. needless to say, it was my dear boy who was snoring non-stop for 3 nights in a row that caused my insomnia, and now, migraine.

i'm not mad at him, just mad at myself for being sucha light sleepy.

anywayz, i did have a wonderful weekend because for once in months, i think, we finally made it to church, and pretty on time i must say. you know its no joke getting up at 8am in the morning, especially on a sunday where by default, is supposed to be a sleep-in day.

sermon was good, it was on Psalms 133. a very short, but meaningful psalm on Unity. remember how Paul talked about the various members of the body of Christ, all doing different works to complement each other? by nature, everyone is made differently, that's how fights, conflicts and differences happen. which was why the speaker urged all to live at peace with one another, in unity, so that we may work towards the building of the Kingdom in time to come.

and did you also know that precious oil is made from 4 different spices and one oil? (exodus 30:23-25) cassia, cinnamon, fragrant cane, myrrh and olive oil. all with antiseptic properties. all mixed together to prevent bad things from happening. likewise with unity, we can prevent bad things from happening.

"united we stand, divided we fall."

simple as that.

Saturday, September 24, 2005

| So Sleepy... |

alright, its been almost an hour and he's still snoring away like nobody's business! OMG!!! i'm so sleepy but he's so noisy and i so can't get to any rest. its either he gets up and stops sleeping or i'll just stay up to watch cable.

fine, i've decided, he's gotta get up. i need to sleep!

| Please Educate the Boys on This |

this is hilarious. seriously. ripped it off some email. worth a good laugh!

This a good lesson for men...
In the world of romance, one single rule applies to the men:
Make the woman happy.
Do something she likes, and you get points.
Do something she dislikes and points are subtracted.
You don't get any points for doing something she expects.
Sorry, but that's the way the game is played.

Here is a guide to the point system:

SIMPLE DUTIES

You make the bed (+1)
You make the bed, but forget the decorative pillow (0)
You throw the bedspread over rumpled sheets (-1)
You go out to buy her what she wants (+5) In the rain (+8)
But return with Beer (-5)

You check out a suspicious noise at night (0)
You check out a suspicious noise, and it is nothing (0)
You check out a suspicious noise and it is something (+5)
You pummel it with iron rod (+10)
It's her pet (-10)

SOCIAL ENGAGEMENTS

You stay by her side the entire party (0)
You stay by her side for a while, then leave to chat with a collegebuddy (-2)
Named Tina (-4)
Tina is a dancer (-6)
Tina has silicon implants (-80)

HER BIRTHDAY

You take her out to dinner (0)
You take her out to dinner and it's not a sports bar (+1)
Okay, it's a sports bar (-2)
And it's all-you-can-eat night (-3)
It's a sports bar, it's all-you-can-eat night, and your face is painted the colours of your favourite team (-10)

A NIGHT OUT

You take her to a movie (+2)
You take her to a movie she likes (+4)
You take her to a movie you hate (+6)
You take her to a movie you like (-2)
It's called 'DeathCop' (-3)
You lied and said it was a foreign film about orphans (-15)

YOUR PHYSIQUE

You develop a noticeable potbelly (-15)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and exercise to get rid of it (+10)
You develop a noticeable potbelly and resort to baggy jeans and baggy Hawaiian shirts (-30)
You say, "It doesn't matter, you have one too." (-8000)

ENJOY THE 'BIG' QUESTION

She asks, "Do I look fat?"

You answer it frankly (-5)
You hesitate in responding (-10)
You reply, "Where?" (-35)
Any other response (-20)

[Yes, you LOSE points no matter WHAT]

COMMUNICATION

When she wants to talk about a problem,

You listen, displaying what looks like a concerned expression (0)
You listen, for over 30 minutes (+50)
You listen for more than 30 minutes without looking at the TV (+500)
She realizes this is because you have fallen asleep (-10000)

Now what are chances do you have???

| I Can't Sleep! |

its 2.40am and i can't get to sleep because:

1. i slept too much last night (i was on medication)
2. my boyfriend is snoring BIG time, i really really can't get to any sleep
3. because he has block nose (which is causing his snoring), i can't switch on the air-con, and tonight isn't exactly the coolest or windest night.

and now i'm all grumpy and fed up because of all these disturbances. i'm a super light sleeper and the slightest noise, sound or whisper and it will keep me up the entire night.

damn, this is not good at all.

by the way, how's my new skin? nice? that cute lil boy on the cover happens to be yours truly's pup ya know?

anyway, i think i'll go surf friendster or something. i just can't sleep! *screams

Thursday, September 22, 2005

| Indecent Proposal |

caught this movie last night outta boredom, it was a rather old film and i dun remember ever watching it.

it was about this young couple who eloped because the guy's parents (i think) were against their relationship. they had been together since college days and after eloping, eventually got married.

then one day, they found the perfect spot for their dreamhouse and paid a deposit for the land but didn't have enough cash to pay up the rest of it, so they had to mortgage it to the bank. meanwhile, they tried their luck to find like USD50,000 at the casino, lost it all and met this billionaire guy who was interested in the girl, the wife. and he gave them an offer:

1 million dollars for 1 night with his wife.

they were stunned but ironically it was the wife who said go to hell, only afterwhich did her husband said the same thing. but the billionaire insisted they gave it a careful thought. just one night and you'll get a million bucks, not everyone can resist that kind of money huh? so they succumbed to the love of money and the husband foolishly sold his wife for a night with a complete stranger for a million bucks.

then as the story continues, they started quarrelling big time because the husband was getting insecure and the wife simply refuses to talk about what happened that night and they eventually split for awhile. and she typically went out with that rich guy following him wherever he went for his classy functions, while her husband was in a pathetic state.

one day, she decided she wanted a divorce and sent papers to him. totally depressed, the terms of the divorce clearly stated he would get to keep the million bucks. he didn't want it, and so he gave the money up to an auction. he signed the papers in her presence and said,

"i realised it wasn't because you didn't love me anymore, but because he (the billionaire) had more money than me."

then he left.

she thought about it, and the billionaire too, graciously let her go back to the one she loved the most - her husband.

moral of the story?

its love again, isn't it?

or should i say its materialism?

everything nowadays is about love. yes, undeniably, love is the IN thing. always have been and always will be.

BUT how can one go in and out of a relationship and still has the audacity to claim its in the name of happiness, or worse, in the name of love, where obviously it was materialism to begin with?

1. love is a commitment.

if you can't commit due to your materialism nature, do yourself a favor and stay single, perhaps be a nun or a monk, or take a vow of celibacy. until you are ready and think you can handle having another significant half, then by all means.

2. love is a decision.

same logic as commitment, but stronger. because one decision can affect the course of your entire life, similarly, one decision can break your heart too.

3. one love.

i truly believe in only one love in one's life, the one they call it, the "true love".
say if you've had like 16 partners or more before (no kidding! i know of people who've actually had more partners despite their young age!!!), then let me ask you this,


which one was the one you loved the most?
the one whom you truly loved?

can't answer?

because surely, that wasn't love!


its sad seeing how some people always claim to be in love with this particular partner and then before you know it, they're in love with someone else! i'm impressed sometimes, amazed at how BIG their heart really is, to be able to tolerate more than one love, i wonder how they do it.

and only when they truly understand what love is then i guess they'll find that one true love of their lives.

| Blogthings |

just outta boredom, surfed a couple of blogs and found this on thedoll's blog.

Your Blogging Type is Unique and Avant Garde


You're a bit ... unusual. And so is your blog.
You're impulsive, and you'll often post the first thing that pops in your head.
Completely uncensored, you blog tends to shock... even though that's not your intent.
You tend to change your blog often, experimenting with new designs and content.


Your Blog Should Be Orange

Your writing has a star quality - it's charming, bold, and flamboyant.
You write what's on your mind, without fear of embarrassment later.
You are one of the most honest bloggers around, and people appreciate your daring persona.

Wednesday, September 21, 2005

| Stairway to Heaven |

Property of PrincessWylyn

alright, so i totally dig this show. its soapy, sad, emotional and full of crying. its like the world saddest show! *sobs

| Rantings |

i'm a happy gal today because:

1. my mom and i are gonna buy birkenstock online and i've already chosen the one i want. wanna see it? *hee
Property of PrincessWylyn
2. my fiance is coming out again today, i'm SO happy! the army should let their guys out more often. seriously.
3. i'm gonna start work tomorrow. yeah i think i didn't mention, i quitted that horrific job last monday and will be starting on a new, better one tomorrow.

i'm a not so happy gal today because:

1. my damn period is LATE! dun even go there, its not what you think it is. its just that i think when girls come of a certain age, their period cycles tend to change? yeah because my last period was super early, and this month's one is super late! i just dunno what's wrong with my body anymore! *argh
2. i have to leave house today even though i have not the slightest mood to go out at all. i just dun feel good and i wish i could stay home and spend time with my pup.
Property of PrincessWylyn
3. i'm broke and i need cash!

enough said.

Tuesday, September 20, 2005

| Daydreams |

i wanna go to the edge of the world
i wanna have the cold winter wind blowing in my face
i wanna feel the warmth of summer
i wanna see maple leaves falling in autumn
i wanna hear birds chirp in spring
i wanna walk around the streets of aussie
i wanna go up the highest peak of the world

where there's a world without pain
without struggles
without worries
without stress
without waiting

only love
only happiness
only dreams
only hope

meeting you was the best thing that ever happened to me.

belonging to you was the one miracle that happened in my life.
i love you baby!

p.s how come i dun see your love declaration to me on your blog one huh??? *hint hint

Monday, September 19, 2005

| Rights and Wrongs |

ok, i have approximately 10 minutes before my tv marathon starts for the night, so chomp chomp.

let's say, a couple goes to club with the guy's friends (all males) and due to "a drop too much" she allowed one of her boyfriend's friend to dance with her, hold her, and maybe touch her?

how do you make that out?

well, i always look at both sides of the coin. obviously it takes 2 to clap. i know that guy went a tad too far, but honestly, if she didn't allow it, the guy would never have gotten the chance to do so?

whatever, but the scene that night was dramatic. seriously.

maybe like one of dear's friends had nicely put it,

"we should abstain from clubbing for awhile" .

and i couldn't agree more!

Thursday, September 15, 2005

| Makeover @ Coverlooks |

Property of PrincessWylyn

it was fun, cool and romantic. truly an experience and i'm glad we went for it. =)

p.s (click on the pic for a Larger View)

Monday, September 12, 2005

| Food |

i wanna talk about food today, since i'm starving and still waiting for my dinner to arrive.

last weekend was a very satisfying one, because in just 2 days, we've tried 2 new places:

1. Hob Nob @ Far East Shopping Centre
2. Jerry's BBQ and Grill @ Jalan Kayu

and the verdict for both places?

MARVELOUS!

i only have pics of Jerry's BBQ and Grill, and some of their signature dishes. *yumz

Property of PrincessWylyn

oh and by the way, watch OUT for our makeover pics in my next post!

Saturday, September 10, 2005

| TGIF |

just like that, another week has passed, and i can't help but feel all so excited that the weekends are HERE!

throughout this week, many things happened. one of which was the demise of one of dear's uncle. we went for the wake last night, just to pay our last respects, and my deepest condolences to his entire family.

hmmm and now, the list of activities lined up:

1. our makeover pics are ready and we'll be heading down to collect them tomorrow, once we've had our well-deserved rest, ha!

saturdays and sundays are rest days, and its the time where you can take your own sweet time and do your own stuff and nobody would say anything.

2. sunday is the army's marathon and daddy and i will be going? oh man, imagine me, yours truly, running a 6km long marathon, *lolx honestly, when was the last time i even ran (besides for the bus)??? centuries ago! yah just go ahead and laugh till you roll on the floor.
dear would be there too with his battalion, hmmm oh well, whatever, doesn't bother me.

3. and i have an auto transmission driving lesson tomorrow, i dunno for what. total waste of my time and money, *sigh i'm only going because its compulsory.

what else? ok, officially brain-dead. its 12.26am in the morning alright? i'm totally shagged out! *bleah

Wednesday, September 07, 2005

| Work |

i'm back from work.

i reached home at 6pm.

did i mention i end work at 5.30pm?

well, so i was already done with my work at 5.23pm, and i had nothing else to do. i couldn't possibly find more work to do just to fill that 7 minutes up isn't it? so by the time i cleared my desk, it was about 5.25pm, and i just left.

my supervisor didn't look happy.

what's her freaking problem?

i stayed behind for more than 15 minutes last week on 2 days, dun think this is too much to ask for is it?

i don't care.

if she ain't happy, then ask me to leave. i'm not hard-up for this stupid job.

*major eyeroll

Tuesday, September 06, 2005

Monday, September 05, 2005

| School |

Property of PrincessWylyn

work was alright today, but like what my father says, whatever job that i do now, its just a complete waste of my time. i should be out there in australia pursuing my bachelor degree right now, instead of just being a nobody in a normal office. *sighz

sometimes i get upset at the thought of it too. BUT i've already waited for a year, i just have another year more to go before we'll be on our way to australia. and this is my motivation until it becomes a reality.

dear, help me make it happen?

Sunday, September 04, 2005

| My Updates |

been a while since i last posted, kinda miss my blog actually. i've grown so attached to it, its hard to be away from it even for a couple of days. *hee

this weekend had been a fast and short one, like all other weekends. well, at least what's worth is that we tried to make the best outta every minute, and tried to stretch the time we have on hand with each other, so that at the end of it, our weekend would be more fulfilled.

friday:
i dun really like my present job. i can't quite describe how i feel about it, but most importantly, i know i'm not happy. the people there are nice, mature and alot more pro if you know what i mean, and work isn't that crazy. but at the end of the day, i didn't feel happy. maybe it takes some getting used to, i'm not sure, but i certainly hope the negativity would go away, and i'd feel better at the end of this week, if not, guess i'll leave?

SO, my only consolation was to wait for my soldier to book out in the night, where we went to changi v for my dinner, his supper. *heh

saturday:
had driving in the early early morning, it was painful trying to get up and it was dreadful in the end cos i had alot of scolding from this super impatient and sickening instructor. *argh the thought of it just makes me want to murder him.

BUT the happy thing was that dear accompanied me there, for the first time, after i'm almost finishing with my lessons. well, better than none. *smilez

then we went to town to open our very first joint account. *yippie its significant, that's why i'm penning this down. after 4 years of stability, we finally decided it was time where we did some concrete action regarding our wedding fund. we don't want this relationship to be just a dream, or just a fairy tale, but we want to make it come true, we want to make this dream a reality. *laughz

sudden urge to want to sing ktv, and so we went down for an impromptu ktv session at kbox. i sang out all my frustration that accumulated during driving earlier on. *boo

after that, we went for some retail therapy. ha! this activity never fails to brighten up my day. *hee
got my black earrings, my makeup remover and some neccesities. hmmm, so happy!

and in the night, dear's club-siao army friends asked if we were interested to go Chinablack to finish up the Jim Bean and this other hard liquor they opened earlier. well, since drinks were on the house, so why not?

but honestly, that place seems to be getting from bad to worse. music sucked, people sucked, everything sucked there, and we are so not gonna waste our time and money there again. alright, at least for the time being. *hee
we left early, cos the djs seemed to be getting confused about the kinda songs they were playing, didn't sound like trance, nor r&b, or anything. just sounded like trash. *blah

sunday:
today. well, we planned for a swim but it ended up raining cats and dogs even before we got up. so, the entire day was spent lazing and basically lazing. *laughz

BUT we did manage to leave the house and went to the airport for some nice food. got back and it was time for my solider to return to his camp for his duty. *sighz which explains why i'm here writing this entry now.

how boring?

i miss [you] already, come out on tuesday and thursday for me ok?

Property of PrincessWylyn
::always happy with [you]::