::regrets::

i'm still very affected by the mtv. regrets. ever since i could remember, my motto was to live life to the fullest, and never regret. never live to regret, because it just defeats the whole purpose of living. ok, makes sense. but why, when emotions are involved, there are bound to be regrets? i dun understand.
now i'll be talking in context with the mtv. don't you think that girl should have called out to her so-called lover in the end when she finally figured out he was the one who gave her the new pair of eyes? i mean comon, even if she doesn't love the guy anymore, she could still acknowledge him out of gratitude. he did, after all, give her his pair of eyes you know? was it because she felt that she was too indebt to him, there was just no way she could have be with him? or was it because she didn't want to take up the burden and responsiblity of looking after a blind man? true, it'd be quite a task. but if you really love the guy, would you mind? or would she rather be with her's ex-lover's assistant because obviously its the easiest way out? why? what was the reason that made her walk away from him in the end? if she was mad at the photographer for not visiting her at the hopsital to celebrate her recovery, or that he didn't look her up, then she would have realised in the end that as much as he wanted too, he couldn't because he was already blind. what else could it have been? was it because, after such a long time, she and the assistant had already started another relationship and there was no way she could have been with the photographer again because she was so filled with guilt and remorse, she knew she had let him down in every way possible? perhaps. maybe we'll never know. i hardly even know the title of the song, let alone the meaning of it all. but it has such a big impact on me. *silent sob*
why must life be filled with regrets? issit even possible for you to "live life to the fullest" and have no regrets? is love fair to both parties? let's talk about..maybe a love triangle. if this couple have been together for quite awhile, and they are very loving to each other. suddenly this girl comes into the relationship, and the guy is shaken because he has been touched by her many little actions. the poor girlfriend doesn't know abt it, coz if she knew, her heart would break. and yet this guy is struggling between his love for his girlfriend, and the possibility of letting the potential love-of-his-life go. i understand where the guy is coming from. he may be letting go true happiness, and in his life, there would be this major regret of giving up the chance of not trying? sounds reasonable. but what about his present girlfriend? she has given her all to him, and she loves her boyfriend whole-heartedly but if she ever finds out, i'm not so sure if she'll forgive her boyfriend, and continue being with him. love triangle like these occurs everyday i'm certain. and how do the people involved come to terms with it? sad. enough said. maybe someone can enlighten me?