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Friday, October 12, 2007

| To Love, or to be Loved? |

am suppose to be doing the final ASSignment for the semester which is due tomorrow BUT i'm rather disturbed about this series of conversations i've had with this new fellow colleague today during lunch.

she's married with 2 children who are about my age. she doesn't sleep with her husband ever since she got pregnant with their second child, and she also doesn't allow her husband to touch her since the birth of their second child.

she tells me that she's never loved her husband. prior to their arranged marriage, she had already broken up with him because she didn't love him anymore. the only reason why she accepted it was because she respected and loved her parents.

her life story just made me feel so sad. i can't imagine if i were in her shoes...

then it comes to the question of whether to love, or to be loved...?? think about it folks.

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